Pervtastic Image Post #27 MOAR Spanking

So last night I was having this really vivid dream where I had this woman across my lap, her head to the left, her feet to the right, and her bare ass was perfectly positioned for a spanking. It's stuck with me all day long, so now I'm sharing the beauty with you of a well-spanked bottom.
Enjoy.....

JJ

Question from Anon: Daddy Dom's

Got this question in from Anon this morning:

There is a variety of Dom "types". Do strict Doms consider Daddy Doms to be weak or overly involved? 

Now this is a really good question that's got me thinking while I'm still drinking my first coffee of the day. I'll try and make my answer coherent....

I love that in the BDSM world there's so much variety and diversity. I love exploring those differences when I'm talking to other people about it, so I tend not to think of 'Dom' in the nature of a job description, with a list of specific generic requirements. I think there's as many different types of 'Dom' around as there are people.

Do strict Dom's consider Daddy Dom's to be weak or overly involved though? I have no idea. I'm guessing some do, some don't, some won't give a shit, and some have never given it any thought at all.

Speaking for me personally, I have difficulty with mentally divorcing the Father/Daughter roles from the Daddy/sub dynamic, and so because of that it automatically reminds me of sexual abuse of children and makes me feel very uneasy. I know that's not what it is, so don't be getting all uppitty and pissed off. I'm trying to explain this. 

I know that's not what it's about, but it makes me feel uneasy, and so do pictures of pornstars dressed in school uniforms, or as cheerleaders. While I can know that the person in that particular image is Debbie McDildo from Dundee aged 24, the way the image is shot seems to me to be targetting guys getting off on girls dressed like schoolkids. So that creeps me out.

Because it creeps me out, I haven't gone snooping and investigating and reading up on 'Daddy Dom's' and to what level they get involved, what the common activities are that they engage in with their sub. I'll happily admit I'm speaking from a position of ignorance, and the same goes for whatever your definition of strict Dom's is. 

I don't consider myself a strict Dom. I won't order a sub around unless it's playtime. I want her to be a real person and not someone who only exists to obey my commands with no power of free will for herself. But again, I'm assuming that's what you mean by strict Dom. 

The joyous diversity of BDSM.

So the short version of the answer. I've no idea if they think Daddy Dom's are weak. I know they creep me out a bit and I've explained why, and I've also admitted that I'm ignorant of the facts. 

Fucking good question, Anon!

JJ

Pervtastic Image Post #26 Curves

Writers Block

Fucking fuckety fucksticks.... oh, how I loathe having writers block. 

I've tried all the usual suggestions, and even a few of the more unusual ones too, and while I know it's a temporary thing, because it always has been in the past, it makes it so frustrating. I just can't seem to access that creative part of my head that normally never shuts up. 

Yet when I open the blank page the silence is deafening. 

I can plan out a story structure, work out all the events and reactions, sort them into the order I want them, create profiles for my characters, research all the little things that provide a depth of detail that can make a difference in believability. All these things I can do, but words on the page... nothing.

I've been working on the follow-up to 'The Island', writing a short story that will cover the couple of days that Kyle, Patricia, Lakshmi, Casey and Ed are in San Antonio, and it's told from Ed's perspective. Now Ed, if you haven't read The Island, has been compared to Jonah Hill's character in Superbad and to Steve Stiffler in the American Pie movies. He's a bit like them, now that I think of it. I like to think of him as chaos incarnate, a walking profanosaurus with a gift for poor impulse control. As you can imagine, he's a lot of fun to write dialogue for. 

I've got about 10,000 words of it written, and maybe another 20,000 will have the short story finished, but right now it's just not happening. Not yet. But it will. In the meantime I'll suffer the frustration, because I have little choice and I'll keep working away at it. 

In order to vent that frustration, I figured I'd vent on here, because it's my blog and I can. Thanks for reading my moan.

JJ

Pervtastic Image Post #25 Smut

Monday morning... It's rarely I find my perspective on things matching that of a cat, but Garfield has kinda nailed the whole 'I Hate Monday's' sentiment quite nicely. So have some smut, to start your week off!

JJ

Oh, yeah - and it's probably pretty obvious from the pictures but I'm seriously craving a blowjob today!

Withdrawal of Attention

I've been pondering this idea for a few days now. Is withdrawing attention from someone the harshest of punishments, especially in a D/s relationship? 

We've all seen pictures, or videos of various punishments being meted out in the BDSM world, some simple and some outrageous, some innovative and some exotic, and in real life I've engaged in quite a few of them. However, I haven't gone as far as to completely withdraw any attention from my sub. 

In effect, if I were to do so as a punishment, then it would leave my sub without that relationship in place for as long as I chose to do it. Now, to be clear here, I'm not talking about putting her in a room, tying her up and leaving her there on the other side of a closed door. I'm talking complete absence. 

No conversation, no phone calls, emails, text messages, no communication. No personal interaction, no friendly banter, no touching, no comfort knowing the other person is around.... I'm talking no presence whatsoever. Completely and utterly ignoring your existence.

Add into that a carefully manipulated doubt that they may not come back again, and give that seed time to grow. Is that as cruel as you can get between a Dom and a sub? 

Utter coldness, lack of caring, complete isolation from the relationship that was there. Wouldn't that induce grief for the partnership, yet an appreciation for what was there all along? What may be lost?

I know there's a few submissive readers of this blog, and I'd be interested in your thoughts on this subject. Would the loss of your Dom for an undisclosed amount of time, with the doubt that they were ever coming back, be the worst punishment they could inflict on you for a transgression?

Anonymous can comment too, so don't be shy, folks.

JJ

Pervtastic Image Post #24 Vintage

Going back to the time of furry muffs, faded prints and fashion that is best not spoken about... did I mention the furry muffs?

Pervtastic Image Post #23 Redheads

REDHEADS!!!

Quotation

Just read this and it made me chuckle, so I thought I'd share it....

Submission without domination is when you keep doing what he wants even after he keeps insisting he doesn't want it. Domination without submission is when he keeps telling you to do something and you keep telling him to fuck off.
~ Linda

 Linda's a smart woman! :-)

Pervtastic Image Post #22 Spanked

Yep, I'm totally in the mood to spank some ass this morning, but because I can't you're all gonna have to suffer some pervtastic spanked-ass images.

JJ

Images: Anon Nudes #21

So here's almost the last of the current Anon Nude Litsters project.
Two submissions tonight, no doubt with more to follow in the future though. 

I'm still receiving submissions, despite the cut off being two days ago, so I think I'm going to take the pic of the bunch, maybe edit a few up every weekend, and just keep things ticking over until I have the time to take it forward again. 

Anyway, enough splaff.... here's tonights offerings. My thanks as always to the contributors.

JJ

Pervtastic Image Post #21 Intimate

So I wanted to pick a few images out and do a post about intimacy. I ended up doing this instead.