Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Question from Anon: What's A Good Sub

Question submitted by an Anonymous visitor:
Tips on what makes a good sub ? 

Well, doing as she's fucking told, is the first answer that springs to mind.... 

However, what you're asking is very similar to asking 'what makes a good pizza'. It's far from a simple question, because everyone's tastes are different. Some like onion, some like tuna, some people prefer their pizza without tomato. Different strokes for different folks, right?

Because of the diversity of behaiour within a Dom/sub relationship it's really down to an agreement in tastes, desires, goals..... or rather kinks, perversions, fantasies and limits. A good sub for what you want might not be a good sub for what I want. 

Then there's the chemistry between the two people - that's 90% of the ball game to me.

So if you're a Dom, you meet a sub, you're getting on great, you're both into the same things or willing to play in the same areas, and you've got some seriously good chemistry going on, then odds are she's going to be a good sub for you. 
But I will go back to the first answer because if she's a good sub..... she'll do as she's fucking told! 
And smile while she's doing it....

JJ

1 comment:

  1. Anonymous11:57 PM

    Thanks lol I'm a girl wanting to be a sub for my partner and wanted a few tips to get me started....

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